Mai Gray

At his mother's memorial service on May 29, 2010, Jarrett spoke of her elegance. I remember seeing Mai Gray for the first time at an eighth grade orientation at Paseo High School. More than a typical school open house, this was my introduction to racial diversity. Mai was in the role of a host. Her son, Jon, was in my class but she had two older children  and was already a parent leader.
When I saw her, I knew she was important. The way she dressed; the way she carried herself; her tone of voice; her confidence; and the way others responded to her. I remember the warm gracious greeting she gave my parents. For the last forty-five years we have never spoken without Mai inquiring about my mother.
I have witnessed the integrity of her careful affirmation of core Gospel values in many meetings. I have observed the way she brought people together and built bridges of hope and encouragement.
Even the memories are a blessing!